Robert Cahow was the eldest of eight brothers from a Wisconsin farmer’s family. During the first stages of the war he served as a Military Policeman (MP) back home, then he decided to volunteer for frontline service and was transferred to Europe. He joined the 78th U.S. Infantry Division.

In the autumn of 1944, his unit was involved in heavy fighting in the Hürtgen Forest. At one point the American forces got stuck when their advance towards the city of Schmidt was confronted with heavy resistance. The 78th Division made an effort to take the pillboxes (concrete bunkers) that dotted a strategic hill called Ochsenkopf, and during the prolonged battles for these bunkers a number of his comrades were injured.

Robert volunteered to try and save them, however during the endeavour he stepped on a mine and died. Other GIs weren’t able to reach him due to German crossfire. After the fighting was over Robert's body was buried in the woods, most likely by German soldiers, and it was in this makeshift grave where his remains rested for the next 56 years.

The message that Robert was missing reached his parents via a telegram and for a year the family lived in uncertainty. Then Robert was declared dead. However, what had happened remained a mystery until April 2000 when combat engineers - combing the woods for remaining land mines - found his improvised grave. Given his size of 2.01 metres, he was easily identified. Though his remains were shipped to the U.S., his family still visits the Hürtgen Forest regularly. Sadly, this kind of closure has not come for every family, with hundreds of men still missing in the Hürtgen Forest to this day.